Money and independence

I started working right after I finished school. I didn't have a slight impression of how much I was going to earn (because we never get what's on the paper!!). As a teen I was so excited to finally have my own money, for my own stuff, that I completely wasted my first salary (2 days job). Literally spent 100€ on clothing...

I wasn't going to college because I failed my exams, so that was pretty much all I was doing: working and wasting.

I had already quit looking for options but my mother kept trying to open my eyes, telling me life doesn't end there and that I had to move on and do my best to manage a better future.

That's what I did after a while of constantly hearing her saying the same things over and over again.

She gave me a huge push! She got me working for a part-time company who barely gives me any break with so many job offers! Now I'm working for almost an entire year in the same place, I started working in the morning and now I'm full-time.

But one day it clicked on my mind that this can't be it.

I made myself think: what do you like to do the most?
And that lead me to so many answers. I kept thinking which one I would like to work on and finally got my final answer: Web Design. I searched all over the internet for a course where I'd match all the requirements and now I'm working all day and going to school at night. Studying what I like makes it so much easier to just live each day, even tho it makes me exhausted.

This is an adventure that I wanted to share here because so many people think that if you fail at something you just won't be able to stand again. The truth is there's always a way.

I hope this was somehow helpful and/or interesting to read and hopefully I'll see you around!
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Why did I make this blog?

So basically, this post is going to be about me just explaining the entire concept behind this blog.

I've recently started a YouTube channel: heyimsofs (if you're interested give it a look) where i just sit in front of a camera and speak from my heart whatever's on my mind. I've been giving it all that I can but the reason I don't post regularly (and that really bothers me and stops my growth) is that I work full time and I study at night .I spend the rest of my "free" hours in public transports going from home to work, to school, to home again and repeat it everyday...

So because I get home at night and then I don't have good lightning to make the videos I want, I'm unable to record as frequently as I'd like to.

This is the main reason why I'm starting this blog.

I can still "speak" from my heart and I don't need good lightning or try to look great and spend hours editing; I feel like this is more real.

Now, the concept of this blog was actually suggested by my mother who has been such a huge support for me!

Ever since I started working my life has become a big mess.
Here I'll be posting my adventures through adulthood and optimistically it'll be as entertaining as it sounds!

I hope I got your attention and I hope you'll give me a chance...
Thank you so much if you managed to read this far and hopefully I'll see you around!

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